‘Career Counseling’, when I say that I am a
career counselor to people of my parents age, they just laugh at me saying
“Humare zamane meine yeh sab nahi hua karta tha, hum aaj ke navjawanon jaise
confused nahi the (During our times we were not as confused as today’s youth)”
I wanted to ask them “Really? Looking at
today’s world in which, every where there is a rat race and world being so
competitive and above all of these you have umpteen number of careers?” Many a
times we are in a career where one is not happy and would want to change their
careers in the middle age, or a child who has taken up engineering / science
just because their peers are doing it or parents wants them to pursue it.
What do we do? Whom do we go to? How do we
go about find what is right for ME? Here, I believe and feel there is a need of
an expert who is able to detect one’s personality, aptitude and interest
through evaluation, who know about different careers, curriculum, know the
career paths and helps one choose a ‘Career’ in which one is happy and enjoys
it.
What is Career Counseling exactly? If you
think if in career counseling a expert will advise you what to take up as a
career, then I would say ‘No, they don’t.’
There is a process in which career
counseling is conducted, the process is as follows:
- Assessment:
- The child is assessed on four dimensions i.e., Aptitude, personality, Interest and Emotional Intelligence.
- These evaluations helps the counselor identify the strengths, aptitude, area of interest of the child
- Counseling:
- Based on the results of the evaluation the counselor come up with a list of best careers for the child and then the child with the help of the counselor zero’s down on a career.
- The counselor then draws out the career path for the child.
- The counselor might also suggest extra help if required, like courses to help the child improve the personality if required, the schools or colleagues, the beat suited curriculum for the child.
- The counselor listens to the child and to the parents separately then together.
Now let’s see what does these assessments
mean and how are they important.
Aptitude is a natural ability to do something; an aptitude can be developed
further or can be improved with coaching. Personality
is the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual’s
distinctive characteristics. Interest is
what one likes to do, they would want to learn or know more about it.
Emotional Intelligence is capacity to
be aware of, control, and express one’s emotions, and handle interpersonal
relationships judiciously and empathetically.
It’s a loop, where everything affects each
other, let’s see how?
Emotional Intelligence is the key to both
personal and professional success. One needs to have an aptitude as well as
interest for the career being chosen, also needs personality traits for that
career. E.g.: A child who wants to do Business management in Finance should
have an aptitude for Math, interest to meet people, should have knack of controlling
his/her temperament as well as please the clients to get the deal and also should
be an extrovert. Here if the child who aspires to be a business manager would
not be successful if he/she does not want /scared to speak to people.
Hence a career counselor’s has an important
role to play, where they help the child and parents understand what would be
the best for a child to avoid any disappointments in future, a career which
well thought from all the perspectives and a career in which you/ your child
will be happy pursuing it.
Bharti Sharma,
Career Counselor,
Edugroomers
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